Teach your daughters to be intimidating in a pretty dress

Just take a look at most of the men’s dating profiles, and you will see that practically all of them want to meet and date a woman who has “class.” Indeed, being called “classy” is an ultimate compliment to a woman. After searching the internet for an answer to this question, I wasn’t very satisfied, because every attempt to define a “classy woman” had one fundamental flaw.

A woman can have all the qualities that make her classy according to those sources and still not have much class.

There seemed to be an odd hush in the store when I had occasion to go in; it felt like being in church. She hates being called “cute” in the hallways of middle school. Recently, I found myself shopping with my daughter for undies.

Eventually, the white fabric would turn a grungy yellow.

The president says he and the first lady were worried that growing up in the White House would give their daughters 'an attitude' but proudly boasted that they have remained respectful, kind and considerate young women.

When asked by Kelly what he would say if Michelle turned to him in 10 years and said that she wanted to run for office, the President said: 'I would say where did you take my wife because I was sure there was an alien body-snatching going on.' In the rapid fire round of questions at the end of the taped interview, President Obama admitted to being an intense trash talker during the basketball games he hosts at the White House, but also credits the playful banter as the reason why he feels his opponents don't just let him win.

" She didn't ask though :) Toilet seat covers are a funny thing to me. I hardly even noticed there was a toilet in this bathroom! Body dissatisfaction manifests in many subtle and not so subtle ways. I remember having to have to ask my mom for a training bra back in the 1970s, when halter-tops were the fashion. The grownups were in their own bubble, while adolescent girls were donning their crisscross bras, obvious under the classic white tees. On a small rack in the back of the store, near the dressing room, was a row of small harnesses: Teenform 32AA – 34C. (You can read Peggy Orenstein’s book, Cinderella Ate My Daughter to get a full picture of raising girls in today’s culture.) Yet, here is a word – tween – that aptly describes my petite 13-year-old. They are especially handy for the breast bud phase as well as for the years when gravity finally takes its hold. They have taken girlhood to an extreme, glorifying the unrealistic standard for beauty to a new level of egregiousness by the sheer fact of targeting tweens and their credit card-carrying moms. It’s a phenomenon finely sculpted by our culture and, ah hum, ladies, lasts a lifetime. The pattern, if there is one: Late bloomer, on schedule, late bloomer. (These could be names of horses in the Kentucky Derby.) The packaging came with instructions not unlike Singer dress patterns, with line drawings on how to put one on. That first time “shopping” for a bra was mortifying. As a post war German immigrant, my mom’s practicality trumped sensitivity. Having more than one was an indulgence – all the more so because I didn’t need one for a long time. And it comes down to two personas that get promoted: princess and slut. (Sorry if I’m shouting at you.) Thank god for sport bras. Couldn’t we be satisfied with these colorful and truly practical under garments? They fit just about any girl, at any age, no matter what size or shape. Victoria and Aerie have changed the lingerie landscape.A very small minority of women who don’t have a lot of class are able to develop that quality and become truly classy.Doing this requires reflecting on your own self, recognizing those qualities that you are missing and having which would make you more classy (something that few, if any women, would want to do) and working in all the necessary directions to build that attractive flair of class and sophistication.

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