My boyfriend is on dating sites
He rushes me through sex so I’ll fall asleep afterward, and he can then log onto his chat sites. The whole truth is that there’s no reason a guy in a serious, monogamous relationship should EVER be visiting those sites unless the relationship is finished.
If I happen to wake up to go to the bathroom, he pulls up another screen so it doesn’t look like he’s chatting and waits for me to lie back down before he goes back to it. A healthy relationship has trust, companionship, respect, love, and intimacy. MOA, LW, and give that loser boyfriend of yours a legitimate reason to cruise the singles sites.
I discovered this because he forgot to log out of his e-mails and I know I shouldn't have, but temptation took over.
They are all filthy and they are all requestion "no strings" what does this mean? Who Are These People Who Continue to Sneer at Trump but Didn't Vote for the Only Sane Candidate?
And like any other desperate girlfriend, I believe him. I stayed another month believin everything he said, the same things your man said to you. And you need to look after yourself first, put your own heart first. The man of your dreams IS you there and won't make you question anything. During that time i had caught him cheating/ pursuing other women a few times!
I don't know what to do anymore, I literally cannot trust him and it kills me.
I don't even know if he's bisexual or has slept with a guy.
Now, we are miles away and I'm trying to understand and to forget what I've seen or just happened. I'm confused and sometimes I just want to finish the relationship. I broke up with him but he always kept coming round wearing me down.
A few months ago I found strange addresses in satnav and when I googled them they were gay saunas.
I can understand people struggling with sexuality but lying and betraying is unforgivable. Been with the same guy for almost 3 years and it started out with him cheating/flirting with girls behind my back (sex, hanging out, messaging), then being emotionally/physically abusive, to most recently having mutilple subscriptions to straight & gay hookups sites, he even made a Grindr. I would always find out way later on and be crushed, then he would try to apologize and be emotional then expect me to move on from it quickly.