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It’s sort of impromptu play: a “sport” indulged in not just for the amusement of the flirt—typically a young, coquettish woman, but at times a libidinous male, or “player”—but also for the person being flirted possible interest in the alleged “temptress”—which might include a competitor or, indeed, a spouse! As a “tease,” ultimate sexual consummation is unlikely, and may be frankly impossible—although occasionally flirtations that start out innocent enough end up in the bedroom. It’s amorousness for its own sake—without, that is, serious intent.However superficial, playful, or uncommitted, it’s an expression of sexual interest in, and possible affection for, the other party.Neither flirting, nor teasing is exclusive to one gender.I have seen both sexes engage in both behaviours with members of the opposite sex.So let’s first look at some basic descriptions of flirting to see why such behavior is typically regarded as much more “innocent” than cock teasing.Whereas both seductive interpersonal behaviors might be characterized as sexually tantalizing, the underlying motive(s) behind flirting seems mostly related to having fun.In this post I’ll delve into the crucial dynamics that separate these two interpersonal behaviors, which on the surface might appear similarly alluring and beguiling.In a sense, flirting and cock teasing can be seen as kindred forms of teasing.
Note 2: If you can think of anyone who might have an interest in this topic, please do pass this post on.Stopping off at their house to return a book he’d borrowed, he noticed that the top button to his jeans was coming off. As already suggested, on the surface the two can look pretty much the same.Which made him all the more embarrassed when he rang the doorbell to find the wife home alone. For they both can involve (as, again, Wikipedia notes of flirting) body language, gestures, postures, physiologic signs, and actual verbalizations that suggest a familiarity—or intimacy—beyond anything actually warranted.), which he had no idea how to knit back into place, she suggested he bring the jeans with him the next time he came over, and she’d be happy to fix it for him. Or you could take them off right now, and we could have an affair.” In the moment he was much too taken aback to respond, and she immediately hastened to change the subject. Note how this scenario amusingly exemplifies Wikipedia’s description of flirting as ordinarily entailing “speaking and behaving in a way that suggests . Covertly, the message (calculatingly disguised from the recipient) is something like: “You’re not going to get what I I’m available for sex [or intercourse], but in the end you’ll get nothing of what I’ll leave you craving for.”The cock teaser (usually female, but occasionally a straight male teasing a gay admirer) really has no intention or desire to have sex with the other person, but yet enjoys evoking or stoking desire.Then she added, with a coy, semi-joking twinkle in her eyes, “ . But delightedly, he recognized that she was attracted to him, too, and must have felt compelled to take advantage of this unprecedented circumstance to somehow let him know. So it’s all, as the name so clearly indicates, a “tease”—and in the most negative sense of that term.
That is, they similarly suggest at least the of sexual intimacy.