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Stopping off at their house to return a book he’d borrowed, he noticed that the top button to his jeans was coming off. As already suggested, on the surface the two can look pretty much the same.
Which made him all the more embarrassed when he rang the doorbell to find the wife home alone. For they both can involve (as, again, Wikipedia notes of flirting) body language, gestures, postures, physiologic signs, and actual verbalizations that suggest a familiarity—or intimacy—beyond anything actually warranted.
Neither flirting, nor teasing is exclusive to one gender.
I have seen both sexes engage in both behaviours with members of the opposite sex.
So clearly distinguishing between them can be confusing, or downright tricky.
But psychologically—and even morally—they can be worlds apart.
So let’s first look at some basic descriptions of flirting to see why such behavior is typically regarded as much more “innocent” than cock teasing.
But with the cock teaser, their interest isn’t in the other person at all but in arousing his libido—with the ultimate intention of thwarting (or possibly ) that arousal.Regardless of how conscious the cock teaser may be of it, the behavior is still best understood as a power play, unfairly taking advantage of the typical male's susceptibility to even the mildest of sexual advances.And it might even be seen as cruel in its deceptiveness and insensitivity toward their feelings.In this post I’ll delve into the crucial dynamics that separate these two interpersonal behaviors, which on the surface might appear similarly alluring and beguiling.In a sense, flirting and cock teasing can be seen as kindred forms of teasing.
Yet the flirt and cock tease share at least one thing in common.